Janelle Esker

Janelle Esker is the grateful wife of Michael and homeschooling mother of six amazing children. She lives with her family, 4 cats, 1 dog, 3 ducks and 12 chickens in scenic Ohio. Janelle received her B.A. in Education from Ohio Northern University. She is the author of CHOSEN: One Family's Journey with Autism.

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  1. I love this so much Janelle. I am just so blessed that we can connect ‘on line’ through our blogs!! Isn’t that just amazing? I had NO idea yo blogged, btw- and I swear it took me time to figure out it WAS you!!!! Just love this connection, and oh how I love your beautiful and convicting message here. Have you read Jen Hatmaker’s “7”? Your writing about the Sabbath reminds me of her book my women’s group is doing right now. If you can’t read it, then DO! It’s amazing.

    i need to be much more intentional about this. I spend all day at church on Sundays- with the service and leading the teen ministry. I come home either preparing for a meal and the coming week, or I am often racing to a swim meet that Cassidy is in, or a soccer game in the spring or fall for Cade.

    Sunday is far from the Sabbath day to me!! I need to be creative with this- our family needs to be more intentional about ‘planning’ our Sabbath together in honoring our God and RESTING.

    Hmmm… still a challenge. BUT- grace for a new day tomorrow… perhaps we can pick a day each week that is ‘less busy’ and take a chunk out of that day for our bible/.downtime/rest/together time.

    Work in progress over here!!!

    1. Hi Chris…Thank you so much for your comment and encouragement! I don’t think the Bible says it has to be a Saturday or Sunday…Maybe your Sabbath is on Monday 🙂 BTW…I LOVE your blog!!

      1. I believe the Word is specific about the sabbath being the 7th day. Our Creator kept the 7th day and called it holy in Genesis 1. Messiah kept the 7th day and it wasn’t until later that the Sunday law came into effect- because of “inconvenience” for the Romans.

        I appreciate your insight and thoughts, Janelle. It does take a bit of forethought to handle meals ahead. I’m sure it’s even more difficult with children. (Even without children at home, I find I’ve often forgotten to prep something.)

        I found you on a google search looking for ideas as I struggle with sitting still.
        The Heavenly Father is merciful and patient with our weaknesses and difficulties, thankfully. It’s the attitude of our hearts and desire to obey that pleases Him. Our obedience in honoring His day is not only important, it’s His command “Remember the Sabbath to keep it holy”. Shalom!

        1. Hi Jenal,
          I believe you are right about the Sabbath, I have always heard we celebrated the Sabbath because that is the day Jesus rose from the dead. It is something I need to study more about in the Bible and ask God for wisdom for. It’s a very good point! I am so glad you took the time to comment and I am so happy you found The Peaceful Haven!

  2. I found you! I missed my calling as an internet sleuth. 😉 We chatted the other day at the dance studio and I’m so glad I decided to look for you.

    This is a great post. I try very hard to make the Sabbath a labor-free day, but I admit I have a hard time reconciling feeding my family with being entirely restful. I like your idea of using the crock pot. Food can be prepped the day before to put in the crock pot on Sunday. I often make a breakfast the night before to bake first thing. It’s often tempting to go out to lunch on Sunday after Mass, but we try to avoid doing anything that causes another person to have to labor harder than necessary. I long for the old days when stores were closed on Sunday and people spent the day visiting relatives, the elderly or sick, and even visited the cemetery to pray for the dead. Our Church tells us “Sunday is a time for reflection, silence, cultivation of the mind, and meditation which furthers the growth of the Christian interior life.” I try to do something restful, and as making rosaries is a passion of mine, Sunday is a great day to do that…if only these pesky children would find something to do and leave me be!

    Great food for thought here. So glad I found you.

    1. Hi Barbara! I am so glad you found me and now in return I can also connect with you! You are a wonderful writer!! Thank you for your encouraging comment!

  3. Visiting from Fellowship Fridays 🙂 I am so glad I found your post. I have been contemplating keeping Sundays for worship, reflection, and fellowship. I love you list of tips and will try to incorporate them into my Sundays. Thanks!

    1. Hi Michelle,
      Thank you for your comment! It is a process to be sure but I am so thankful you found the post helpful!!

  4. I’m working really hard to adjust my schedule so I can do my harder work during the week and just do the fun stuff on the weekend. It’s been a slow process, but we’re getting there.

    1. I think it is always a slow process when we make a change…keep up the good work! Thanks for stopping by!

  5. Your blogs are such a blessing!

    It is so difficult to set some time aside to rest… and yet so important. Thank you for your list of great ideas.

    1. I find it so hard to set time to rest too Rolene…I am thankful God made this provision for us!

  6. I see something truly special in this website!

    1. Thank you so much Denise, I promise you it’s all God!

  7. Enjoyed the post!

    1. I’m so thankful you liked it, Charlotte!

  8. I love this article on the Sabbath. I have been doing a lot of research on how to honor the sabbath but this article was so clear and concise it has really helped. Blessings.

    1. Hi Donna,
      I am so glad you found this article helpful. It’s been a transformative practice for me!

  9. Jesus said the Sabbath was made for man…..not Jews only…..Jesus never kept Sunday……Do your research and ask God for understanding…..Sunday keeping is something God never taught and man has no authority to change it.

    1. Thank you so much for your comment, Cheryl!

  10. Thank you so much for ALL of your God-honoring guidance and encouragement and I so appreciate your many creative ideas, especially keeping A Sabbath Day to the Lord! It has troubled me for years and yet I always let taking care of family and other responsibilities I didn’t get done during the week creep into the day. If I trust Him to use my Bible/prayer/quiet time, I should be trusting Him to use the Sabbath day as well. Thank you and Happy New Year to you and all your family! 🙂

    1. Hi Wendy,
      I am so thankful you found the post helpful! Keeping the Sabbath has been life changing for me and my family! Sending many blessings your way!

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